Thursday, October 31, 2013

Always Giving Thanks by John Wright


Always Giving Thanks
                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                               by John Wright

            It is hard to believe that Thanksgiving is less than four weeks away.  Remember last year?  Did not you and I say that we were going to count our blessings, and make a conscious effort to not get bogged down with our busy lives, and really try to be thankful.  Well, I hate to admit that I have not done well at all.  I am determined to do better this year, and with God's help and yours, I intend to be a man who expresses gratitude for the gift of life.  It is important that we read God's word for it is the reason for the hope that is within us. 

Ephesians 5:20 "...always giving thanks to God the Father for everything, in the name of our Lord Jesus" 

To be truly thankful to God in the face of anything and everything is hard, but it is possible.  How?  We need to live in the name of our Lord Jesus.  I want to pray in Jesus' name, sleep in Jesus' name, wake in Jesus' name, be an employee in Jesus' name, be a husband in Jesus' name, be a dad in Jesus' name, and be a friend in Jesus' name.

Colossians 3:15


 Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.

        If we take the name of Jesus with us whereever we go, the peace of Christ will cause us to be grateful and give us vision so that we can see beyond ourselves.  When I take my eyes off of Jesus, I develop spiritual nearsightedness. Unless nearsightedness is corrected, I cannot see past the nose on my face, and the only thing that seems important is me.

        This year I am going to use the spiritual glasses that God has given me.  He has given all of us the prescription for perfect spiritual vision.  That prescription was filled at the cross, the ultimate act of serving others.  What we are called to do is serve others in Jesus' name.  Serving God really begins when we live in Jesus name.


John 14:27


 Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you.  I do not give to you as the world gives.  Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.

With Gods peace we are free to be thankful, it does not matter how rough life may get we can still give thanks.

Thursday, October 24, 2013

An Uncomfortable Well of Discontentment by Mike DeCamp


August 28, 2013 was the 50th anniversary of one of my all-time favorite speeches.  It was a speech given by one single man, on one single occasion, but it was a speech that ultimately changed a nation…and hopefully is still changing a nation.  It was Martin Luther King Jr’s “I Have a Dream” speech.  Just reading the words again for this writing brought tears to my eyes.

He had a dream of racial equality that sprung from the depths of an uncomfortable well of discontentment.  That discontentment was right.  It was good.  It was as it should have been.  It was a discontentment that all peoples should have felt.  That discontentment drove a dream of change.

What I want to ask you today…in my own small way…in light of the glory of our Mighty God…
Do you have any dreams today?

I do.

I also have an uncomfortable well of discontentment…and, it is feeding some dreams for the future of our church…the future of the Lord’s people here…and everywhere.

I have a dream...
That one day we will fill these pews…and not just with folks we have stolen from other similar buildings, but with the broken, the hurting, the disillusioned, and the distressed.

Matthew 9:10-13 – While Jesus was having dinner at Matthew’s house, many tax collectors and sinners came and ate with him and his disciples.  When the Pharisees saw this, they asked his disciples, “Why does your teacher eat with tax collectors and sinners?”

On hearing this, Jesus said, “It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick.  But go and learn what this means: ‘I desire mercy, not sacrifice.’  For I have not come to call the righteous, but sinners.”

I have a dream...
That we will raise this roof with praise…not with the artificial cords of electronic amplification, but with the overwhelming praise of hundreds of voices raised in joyful praise to the God of our salvation.

Psalm 100

Shout for joy to the Lord, all the earth.

Worship the Lord with gladness; come before him with joyful songs.

Know that the Lord is God.

It is He who made us, and we are His; we are His people, the sheep of His pasture.

Enter His gates with thanksgiving and His courts with praise; give thanks to Him and praise His name.

For the Lord is good and His love endures forever; His faithfulness continues through all generations.

I have a dream...
That one day…soon maybe…our times together will consistently run overtime because of the three, four, or five baptisms we have every week…then…every day.

Acts 2:46-47 – Every day they continued to meet together in the temple courts.  They broke bread in their homes and ate together with glad and sincere hearts, praising God and enjoying the favor of all the people.  And the Lord added to their number daily those who were being saved.

I have those dreams because I possess an uncomfortable well of discontentment.  I want us to be more.  I want us to make a difference.  I want this church to be used by God to propel the Gospel forward and change lives.  And, I know that with God all things are possible.  I know that it is His desire that everyone come to walk with Him in repentance and renewal.

The question is not whether these things can be done.  The question is not whether God would have it be done.  The question really is:
Will we be His voice in this hurting world?

Let me ask you…do you share my well of discontentment?  Do you share my dreams?  Can you feel that discontentment in your inner being?  If you do, let’s lift our mouths in praise and our hearts in prayer!  Let’s bow our heads in humility and join our hands in unity!

Let’s dream…let’s believe…let’s act…and let’s watch God fill up our wellspring of life with the reality of His power!

Friday, October 18, 2013

"Drastic Change" by Frank Black


“Drastic  Change”

(F. Black – Oct. 8, 2013)

 

      Have you ever had circumstances or events in your life that caused an immediate, total, and permanent change?  --  perhaps an epiphany or a “eureka” experience.  Of course such changes are rather rare, but can you think of one in your life?  Personally, I can come up with only a few in my 72 years.  And if you come up with one, what was it that caused the change?  [It could have been volitional (by your own independent choice) or forced on you by external circumstances].

 

      What am I getting at anyway?  What I’m leading up to is the immediate, total, and permanent change in Jesus’ disciples after His appearance to them following His resurrection. But first, let me back up just a bit. 

 

      If you remember, after Jesus was arrested, His disciples ran away and hid.  They were frightened, confused, and disillusioned.  They became totally ineffective.  By the way, have you ever been really frightened?  What did you do?  Perhaps you can identify with the disciples’ actions.  What would we have done in their situation?  Of course we would like to think that we would have stayed with Mary at the crucifixion like John.  But would we?  Would we have been like Peter and vehemently denied knowing Jesus?

 

      The disciples’ action was not the end of the story as you well know.  It was only the beginning.  What caused their drastic change?  The miraculous resurrection and appearance of Jesus in their midst.  [None of the other religions of our world have anything that can compare to our true religion of Christianity and the resurrection of Jesus].  After Jesus’ return the disciples were 100% sure that Jesus was the Son of God [the Messiah] and were forevermore changed!!  From cringing, uncertain men they became constant workers and advocates of Jesus to their deaths.  [I’ll later present the history of the end of their lives].

 

      Jesus appeared to the disciples and others over a period of 40 days and performed “convincing proofs” [miracles] during that time.  Can you only imagine what your response would be if your deceased  father, mother, husband, wife, or child came alive and lived and ate and taught and performed miracles over a period of days??!!  Not even imaginable to us.  But this occurred with Jesus, the Son of God.  My goodness; after such experiences, you can see how the disciples now totally believed and taught about Jesus until their deaths.  To me this is one of the most convincing proofs of the reality [the truth] of Jesus.  Unless men are absolutely convinced of something, they would not persist with something that caused them suffering and death.  [I find great comfort in the fact that Jesus prayed for us who did not see Him.  In John 20:29 Jesus says, “Because you have seen me, you have believed; blessed are those who have not seen and yet have believed.”  -  This is you and me!!
 

In reviewing the history of the end of the disciples’ lives, I found the following:

·         Peter:  Crucified upside down at his request

·         Andrew:  Crucified on an X-shaped cross

·         James, son of Alpheus:  Stoned to death

·         James, son of Zebedee:  Beheaded

·         John:  Only disciple dying a ‘natural death’ in old age

·         Thaddeus:  Shot to death with arrows

·         Philip:  Crucified

·         Nathaniel:  Crucified upside down

·         Matthew:  Killed with an ax

·         Thomas:  Killed by spear

·         Simon:  Sawn in half

·         Matthias:  (who replaced Judas) – Crucified

 
**  The obvious conclusion of this subject would be the question:  “How has our belief in Jesus changed our lives

Thursday, October 10, 2013

Thoughts from the Men's Advance by Chris Kirby

Frank Black takes the men on a "Hike with God."

Thoughts from the Men’s Advance. 

A couple of weeks ago I had the chance to spend time with 25 or so other men from Southeastern at our annual Men’s Advance.  It was a great time of fellowship with some challenging thoughts about what it means to walk with God.  The guys who shared did a good job of pointing us toward the importance of being in step with our Father and to live our lives in way that honors Him.  Here are a couple of the things that I specifically took away as a challenge from our time together. 

1-      We are stronger on our walk with God if we do it with a team!  God has always been about relationship.  You see from the very beginning the use of companions as people, formed in the image of God, navigate life.  God didn’t leave Adam alone, he gave him Eve.  Moses had Aaron to aid him in ministry.  David had Jonathan to rely on and provide protection from Saul.  We see Jesus walk with 12 followers on a daily basis and 3 of those were best friends to him.  In I Corinthians 12 Paul describes the importance of the faith community working together and sharing gifts.  Acts gives us a glimpse at the earliest days of the church where we see the believers coming together each day to grow together as a movement and even share what they owned to support each other.  I could go on and on.  However, I think you see the point.  We were never called to journey alone.  We were called to walk with other people who support, challenge, and encourage us.  Do you have those people in your life?  I hope so.  If not, seek them out.  It is vitally important to connect with others.  Satan would like to nothing more than to see you try walking through life as a “lone wolf.”  That makes you an easy target.

 

2-      I was really struck by the question of what is consuming my life.  Each of us will be consumed by something.  Our time, energy, and resources will be depleted by something whether it be positive or wasteful.  The question is whether or not those things are truly being used in such a way that would reflect what I say is most important to me.  In other words, if I say that growing in my relationship with God is a priority in my life, why would I spend all my time watching TV that is opposite to the nature of God?  If I believe that being involved in the daily life of my kids is a core value to my life, why would I dig myself into a career that has me away from them all the time?  If I believe that serving and loving others is truly part of honoring God, why do I use all my vacation time for “me time” rather than intentionally laying some aside for ministry opportunities?  My time, my money, my heart, my thoughts; each of those things are going to be consumed.  The way they are consumed will dictate who I am as a person and whether or not my life is a reflection of what God wants for me.    I hope that if someone were to just follow me through my life and take notes on how I’m being consumed there would be no doubt that I’ve allowed God to take control of me.  I hope that I’m an open place for the Spirit to dwell and help me on that walk with God that we talked so much about at the Advance. 

That weekend was a great time.  I don’t know what other men took from it.  I hope you’ll ask them!  But for me, it was a reaffirmation toward the importance of fellowship and living a life where my actions speak louder than words about Who is consuming me!  One last thing- guys, if you didn’t make it this year, I sure hope you’ll go next year and be blessed by a weekend together with brothers in Christ! 

Thursday, October 3, 2013

NEW! A Health Ministry by Lisa Fleetwood


Southeastern is starting a health ministry!  So what does a health ministry do, anyway?  A health ministry provides health promoting services that enhance the well-being of our congregation and people in our community through improving understanding of the mind, body, spirit connection.   Our ultimate goal is to help members improve their physical health so we can use our bodies to serve God. 

What are we doing first?  The first initiative of the health ministry was to purchase an AED (Automated External Defibrillator).  AED’s are used when someone collapses and their heart stops the flow of blood to their brain.  The treatment for this “cardiac arrest” is defibrillation.  Early defibrillation can mean the difference between life and death.  Our hope is that we will never need to use this equipment, but we have it if we need it!  Our new AED is located in the foyer.  If you are interested in learning more about how to use this equipment contact Lisa Fleetwood or Jim Brantly. 

So what’s next?  That depends on you!  The health ministry is looking for volunteers to use their health knowledge to help others.  Are you a medical professional who would not mind sharing tips, reviewing medications, teaching a seminar, or organizing a fitness group?  We need you!  Are you a personal trainer, coach or educator who has a passion for bringing out the best in others?  We need you!  Are you an avid health enthusiast who is willing to encourage and motivate?  We need you! 

So how do I “sign up?”  The first step is creating a database that outlines our strengths as a church body.  This database will be used to determine initiatives in the future.  Most correspondence will be done by email so there is no fear of committing to a time intensive ministry.  If interested, please email Lisa Fleetwood at lfleetwood@ecommunity.com and include your strengths and skills, contact information, and ideas for service.  If you are willing to serve on a health ministry committee that will periodically meet to discuss service and outreach for our church body, include that as well. 

Questions?  Contact Lisa Fleetwood or Jim Brantly.

Wednesday, September 25, 2013

A Charles Wesley Song or a John Wesley Sermon? by Terry Gardner

A Charles Wesley Song or a John Wesley Sermon?
 
On September 5th I found myself in Bristol, England in the Chapel where Charles Wesley led many of the 8,000 hymns he wrote.  While in the chapel our little band of 35 souls began to sing Wesley songs.  We sang, “Soldiers of Christ, Arise,” “Christ, the Lord, is Risen Today,” “A Charge to Keep I Have,” “O for a Thousand Tongues to Sing,” and “Hark!  The Herald Angels Sing.”  Great songs all.
David Worthington, who helps oversee the Chapel and the Wesley museum, then asked this interesting question.  “You’ve just sung some great Charles Wesley songs, but when was the last time you heard a John Wesley sermon?”
 
I know of John Wesley as the founder of the Methodist Church, but what do I know of his preaching and life?  John Wesley’s popularity led to considerable wealth.  At a time when a single man could live comfortably on 30 English pounds a year, Wesley’s annual income was 1,400 pounds.  Wesley’s income was 46 times greater than his personal needs.  As a child the Wesleys had known terrible poverty in a world without any social safety net.  As a young man Wesley had just purchased some pictures for his room when a chambermaid came to his door.  He noticed that she had only a thin linen gown to wear for protection against the cold.  Instinctively he reached into his pocket to give her money for a coat but he had little left. 
 
John Wesley then asked himself:
 
Will Thy Master say “Well done, good and faithful steward?”  Thy hast adorned thy walls with the money that might have screened this poor creature from the cold!  O justice!  O mercy!  Are not these pictures the blood of this poor maid?
 
As a result of this incident Wesley did his best to live on 30 pounds per year and give away his excess wealth.  Each year his income doubled and each year he lived on about 30 pounds per year.  Even when his income rose to 1,400 pounds he still lived on 30 pounds and gave the excess to relieve the needs of others.
 
In 1744 Wesley wrote, “[When I die] if I leave behind me ten pounds … you and all mankind [can] bear witness against me, that I have lived and died a thief and a robber.”  When he died in 1791, the only money mentioned in his will was the miscellaneous coins to be found in his pockets and dresser drawers.  Most of the 30,000 pounds he had earned in life he had given away.
 
Christian History Issue No. 19 shares the following on John Wesley and money:
 
One Word Wesley Hated
John Wesley was known as the great preacher of God’s love and yet, there was one word that Wesley hated.  He described this word as “idle,” “non-sensical,” “stupid,” “miserable,” “vile,” and “diabolical.”  He said it was “the very cant of hell.”  Obviously no Christian should ever utter it.  This exceedingly evil word was … “afford.”  "But I can afford it,” replied the Methodists when Wesley preached against extravagance in food, dress, or lifestyle.  Wesley argued that no Christian could afford anything beyond the necessities required for life and work.  He based his reasoning on five main points:
 
1.  God is the source of the Christian’s money.  None of us really earns money by our own cleverness or hard work.  For God is the one who gives us the energy and intelligence.  He is the true source of all our wealth.  Wesley inquired of some Methodists who felt they were entitled to a higher standard of living now that they could afford it, “Who gave you this addition to your fortune; or (to speak properly) lent it to you?"
 
2.  Christians must account to the Lord for how they have used money.  Wesley urged people to use money wisely, because at any time they may have to give an account to the Lord for the way in which they have used the wealth He gave them.  Because no one knows when that might be, no one should ever waste money now, planning to make it up to the Lord later.  “How long are you to stay here?”  Wesley asked those who felt free to spend extra money on themselves.  “May you tomorrow, perhaps tonight, be summoned to arise and go hence, in order to give an account of this and all your talents to the Judge of the quick and dead?"
 
3.  Christians are trustees of the Lord’s money.  The money God has put into our hands is not our own, but His.  We do not own it; rather we are His agents in distributing it.  Thus we must use it not as we wish, but as He directs.  Wesley reminded his hearers of this truth by asking, “Can any steward afford to be an errant knave? To waste his Lord’s goods?  Can any servant afford to lay out his Master’s money any otherwise than his Master appoints him?”
 
4.  God gives Christians money for them to pass along to those who need it.  God’s purpose in giving us money is for us to help the poor and needy.  To use it on ourselves is to steal from God.  Wesley demanded of some comfortable Methodists:  “Do you not know that God entrusted you with that money (all above what buys necessities for your families) to feed the hungry, to clothe the naked, to help the stranger, the widow, the fatherless; and, indeed, as far as it will go, to relieve the wants of all mankind?  How can you, how dare you, defraud your Lord, by applying it to any other purpose?"
 
5.  Christians may no more buy luxuries for themselves than they may throw their money away.  God made us trustees of His resources so we may feed the hungry and clothe the naked in His name.  We should turn our extra money into food and clothing for the poor.  Just as it would be wrong to destroy other people’s food and clothes, so it is also wrong to spend money needlessly on ourselves.  Wesley said, “None can afford to throw any part of that and raiment into the sea, which was lodged with him on purpose to feed the hungry and clothe the naked.”  But if we are determined to waste God’s money, Wesley argued that it would be better actually to throw it into the sea than to spend it extravagantly.  At least throwing money into the sea hurts no one, while spending it needlessly on ourselves poisons all who see it with “pride, vanity, anger, lust, love of the world, and a thousand ‘foolish and hurtful desires.’”
 
It is easy to see why I prefer a Charles Wesley song to a John Wesley sermon!  I realize that John Wesley was extreme in some of his views.  But I have to admire his commitment to the poor and the clarity of his understanding that all Christians are not our own for we have been bought with a price … the blood of Jesus Christ.  We are God’s stewards and we will all give God an account for our lives including how we spent His money.  At the very least, before we spend, shouldn’t we ask “what would our heavenly Father think of this purchase?”  Will he say, “Well done?”  Can John Wesley inspire us to be better givers, even if we don’t fully measure up to his example?  The better we give of our life, time and treasure the more we will be like Jesus who gave up everything in heaven and on earth to save us when we were without God and without hope.
 
In 1776 the English tax commissioners wrote John Wesley that he’d failed to report his silver plate.  They were certain he had a fine set of silver given his remarkable income.  John Wesley wrote back, “I have two silver spoons at London and two at Bristol.  That is all the plate I have at present, and I shall not buy any more while so many round me want bread.”

Friday, September 20, 2013

An Alternative Faith by Greg York


An Alternative Faith


Last Sunday morning, I was blessed to be part of a truly challenging (and for a typical “church Bible class,” pretty honest and open) discussion about the reality that faith is tough in this age.  Oh, it’s relatively easy for us to give our mental assent to a set of beliefs.  But that’s not the issue.  The difficult issue is trusting God.  And as far as Jesus and Paul and Peter and James (and pretty much any of the Biblical writers you want to cite) are concerned, what we call “faith” is ultimately a question of trust.  And more than that (here’s where it gets tough), “faith” is about acting as if you trust God in what he has said, what he asks, even demands, of us, what he has promised.  Faith/trust, then, is not about what happens between our ears, but about how we speak and act.

 
I’ve continued to think about that discussion off and on this week.

 
The problem is this: My faith/trust is not nearly as solid as I might want it to be.  Not nearly as solid as I certainly want others to think it is.

 
I’m not talking about not believing basic points of “the faith,” points that are about belief’s content.  God exists, Jesus is God-in-the-flesh, he is the source of salvation, and he calls us to love him with our whole being and love neighbor as self.

 
I don’t have issues with the content issue.  I have issues with the trust issue:  Do I trust God enough to live out his way?  Especially when it’s hard.

 
In that regard, I resonate with the words of Christian Wiman (My Bright Abyss: Meditation of a Modern Believer, 93):

 
“Faith steals upon you like dew:  some days you wake and it is there.  And like dew, it gets burned off in the rising sun of anxieties, ambitions, distractions.”

 
“Burned off in the rising sun of anxieties, ambitions, distractions.”  I think I just took a hit there.

 
I wonder if I’m not looking at this from the wrong perspective, though.  I’m defining faith/trust as if it’s all about me, all a function of something I do.

 
But maybe whether I live with trust in God isn’t just about me.  Maybe I’m so busy focusing on my response, that I’m not paying sufficient attention to what I’m responding to.  Maybe first and foremost this is about God.

 
My appreciation is growing for Paul’s words right at the beginning of 1 Corinthians, specifically 1.4-9:  I give thanks to my God always for you because of the grace of God that has been given you in Christ Jesus, for in every way you have been enriched in him, in speech and knowledge of every kind—just as the testimony of Christ has been strengthened among you—so that you are not lacking in any spiritual gift as you wait for the revealing of our Lord Jesus Christ. He will also strengthen you to the end, so that you may be blameless on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.  God is faithful; by him you were called into the fellowship of his Son, Jesus Christ our Lord.  

 
And the way these folks were living out their faith/trust was pretty sorry.  No more or less sorry than the way I live out my faith/trust.  I can’t claim any superiority over them.  The specifics may be different, but the lack of enough trust to live fully God’s ways is pretty much the same.

 
And yet Paul actually says this to these people (and to us):  “He will…strengthen you to the end, so that you may be blameless (blameless?!) on the day of our Lord Jesus Christ.”  Really?  Have you read the rest of 1 Corinthians?  There’s a lot of blame that could be spread around in there.

 
But this isn’t about their faith/trust being perfect:  “God is faithful.”

 
“God is faithful.”

 
Maybe just as “we love because he first loved us,” we learn to trust him because he is first trustworthy to us, not waiting for us to earn his trust.

 
While pretty much always saying I don’t “believe” this, I think I’ve pretty much always operated in real time as if my relationship with God works like this:  If I can just be faithful enough, God will in turn be faithful to me.  (God is faithful only as a means of reward for good behavior, in other words; my faithfulness enables God to be faithful to me.)

 
Because that’s how I’ve operated, I’ve always had a hard time figuring out the line in the little hymn quote found in 2 Timothy 2.13: …if we are faithless, he remains faithful— for he cannot deny himself.  Being faithful is just part of who God is.  And he knows we aren’t always faithful.

 
So, I’m beginning to think that it’s the other way around from how I’ve operated: because God is faithful to me, I’m enabled to be faithful to him.

 
So, I wonder:  What difference would it make in my life—in what I say and do, in how I operate as an agent of God in this world—if my focus was on God’s consistent, constant trustworthiness rather than on my fickle faith?  Would I feel myself freed up to more aggressively pursue his ways if I learned to rest in his faithfulness/trustworthiness instead of being trapped in this no-win situation of trying to rely on my untrustworthy ability to choose the right?  Would I live more faithfully to God if I just accepted that he is faithful to me, that he will deal trustworthily with me according to his promises in Christ?  Would I live more faithfully to God if I quit trying to live into my own faithfulness and instead lived as if he is faithful to me?  Does it make a practical difference to live in response to God’s faithfulness?

 
I’m still thinking about all this and praying about it, but in the faith chaos that whirls around our hearts in this present age, is there any true alternative to us for a “rock to stand on” than the fact that “God is faithful”?

 
May the God of peace himself sanctify you entirely; and may your spirit and soul and body be kept sound and blameless at the coming of our Lord Jesus Christ.  The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do this (1 Thessalonians 5.23-24).

Thursday, September 12, 2013

People of the Book by Mike DeCamp


In recent weeks, I’ve encountered three unconnected, yet related, comments or phrases that have spurred my thoughts down a path that I’d like to ask you to consider.  I’d like to share each of those with you now, and then explain what is subsequently on my mind.

“Dust on your Bible leads to dirt in your life.”

I spotted this little saying recently on a sign outside of a church building not far from my house.  Basically, it is saying that when we neglect the infusion of God’s word into our lives, the void that is left fills up with those things that makes our lives into a mess.  While our Bibles gather dust, our lives gather the chaos of brokenness.

I know this is true. 

Psalm 119:9-11 – How can a young person stay on the path of purity?  By living according to your word.  I seek you with all my heart; do not let me stray from your commands.  I have hidden your word in my heart that I might not sin against you.

I often read my Facebook news feed with a heavy heart when I read about the messes in people’s lives.  They just spew it all out there for the world to see:  The pregnant, single woman who cannot get the “father” to own up to his responsibilities.  The man who cannot find a good girl to date (no matter which bar he looks in for her).  The girl who’s “had enough drama” and is “done with it all” for the fourth time in four days (and that’s just this week).  And the list goes on.

If only they would realize that by keeping their lives according to God’s word, they could avoid so much of that mess and really live a satisfying and happy life!  If only.  If only they would realize that real joy comes from above and can exist in their life despite the rocks that life throws at them.  If only.

“You ‘Church-o-Christers,’ you really know your Bibles.”

This came up in a conversation that Nancy and I had with a couple of really good friends of ours.  We’d been out to a concert together, and we were talking about various worship issues in the church.  One of our friends had grown up in a different faith fellowship, and had only in recent years been attending a church of Christ.  The comment that my friend made was meant as a compliment.  She noted that while she had grown up with the Bible stories, those of us in the Church of Christ often knew the book, chapter, and verse in detail on a vast array of topics and issues.

That has been our reputation.

2 Timothy 3:16-17 – All scripture is God-breathed and is useful for teaching, rebuking, correcting and training in righteousness, so that the servant of God may be thoroughly equipped for every good work.

1 Corinthians 8:1b – But knowledge puffs up while love builds up.

1 Timothy 4:16 – Watch your life and doctrine closely.  Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.

I could add some more verses, but I think you get the point.  The Bible does contain what we need in order to be thoroughly equipped for the Christian life.  It applies to our lives and we can use it to guide our steps.  And, while we need to avoid being “puffed up” with pride in our Bible knowledge, we do need to watch our doctrine just as closely as we do the way we live our lives.

But, what I wonder is:  Is that perception of us is still true?  I wonder.  Just how well we do know our Bible these days?  Are we growing or declining in our biblical knowledge and understanding as a congregation…as a fellowship?  How well do you know your Bible?

Or, are you like the seven year-old boy who said this when he was told he was expected to go to soccer practice:  “I don’t know why they want us to practice; we already know how to play.”

“My kids often go to Bible class by themselves.”

Now, this one disturbs me.  This person shared with me that very often when they take their young children to Sunday School…here at Southeastern, it is often JUST the child and the teacher who are there. 

How can that possibly be?

Deuteronomy 6:6-9 – These commandments that I give you today are to be on your hearts.  Impress them on your children.  Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.  Tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads.  Write them on the doorframes of your houses and on your gates.

The above verse may be “old law” and referring especially to the Ten Commandments, but I think the principle holds true.  We need to teach our children the word of God.  They need to understand more than the “stories.”  They need to know the heart behind the messages, and understand the Being behind the Book.  Why would parents neglect the opportunity of more Bible training for their children (and themselves) that is provided FOR FREE by our church every Sunday morning?

Is that extra hour of sleep really worth that much?  Really?

I recognize that this blog is read by folks well beyond the Southeastern Church of Christ family, and if it is spurring to them on as well, then that is wonderful.  However, I especially want this message to be an alarm clock ringing in the ears of our congregation.  I want it to wake us from our slumbering approach to our Bible study commitment. 

Southeastern family, our level of attendance at our Sunday morning and Wednesday evening Bible classes is scary low.  I want to ask you, as one of your selected shepherds, to recommit yourself to attending our classes.  We need you there.  We need your hearts, your minds, your strength.  We need your encouragement.  If we are going to be a people of the Book, then we best be people who are learning the Book.
If you have questions, concerns, or ideas about our Bible study programs, please see one of the ministers or elders and express yourself.

Please recommit yourself TODAY!

Thursday, September 5, 2013

A Funeral Better than a Feast? by Craig Hill


A Funeral Better than a Feast?


Last week, my wife Regina called me to tell me her Uncle Bob died.  He was old and full of years, and had been sick a long time.  But it was still hard and sad to hear that he had passed away.  I thought of his wife Sue and his Daughter Tammy, and I was sad.  Even now, I tear up a bit.  So Friday we gathered up our things for an overnight stay, gathered up our 15 year Son, and 23 year old Daughter, and drove to Lexington, KY.  We got there late Friday night, but Aunt Sue, Tammy, and many other family members stayed an extra 45 minutes past the end time of the viewing to greet us and mourn with us.

The next day, we had the funeral.  Uncle Bob’s Sister Charlotte gave a eulogy.  It was one of those that told a number of heartwarming stories that were funny and charming.  Others told stories about Bob too.  It warmed your heart.  Uncle Bob was an engaging man.  You had to notice he was in the room.  And this is perhaps the most important part; we heard people say: “He touched people’s lives.”

And of course, it made you think about your own life.  It made you reflect on what you do with your time.  It made me think about what my purpose is.  How do I touch people’s lives?  Do I?  When life is over, what will I have accomplished?  Will people say: “He touched people’s lives”?  And will it be in a good way?

Ecclesiastes Chapter 7, verses 1 to 4 says, “A good name is better than precious ointment; and the day of death than the day of one's birth.  It is better to go to the house of mourning, than to go to the house of feasting: for that is the end of all men; and the living will lay it to his heart.  Sorrow is better than laughter: for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better.  The heart of the wise is in the house of mourning; but the heart of fools is in the house of mirth.”

Really?  The day or our death is better than the day of our birth?  Better to go cry with people in a house of mourning, than to go to a party and have a feast?  Sorrow better than laughter?

Well, think about how your heart feels after a funeral.  You went and paid your respects.  You hugged loved ones.  You saw people you hadn’t taken the time to see in a while.  You told stories.  Maybe you created some new stories.

The key part of the scripture for me is: “for by the sadness of the countenance the heart is made better.”  Reflecting on where my life is headed helps me do course corrections.  It helps me value what I have: family, home, and health.  You may or may not have those blessings.  But the biggest blessing is salvation in Jesus Christ.  That’s the most important thing to have when you die.  How else will I escape the grave?  Not by money, or intelligence, or fine dress, or by athletic ability.

Just Jesus.

So don’t hesitate to go to a funeral.  Go, cry, hug, reflect, repent, and make sure you're baptised and saved by Jesus.

Thursday, August 29, 2013

Rejoice in the Wife of Your Youth by John Wright


Rejoice in the Wife of Your Youth        
by John Wright

            On August 6th, Carla and I celebrated our 30th anniversary.  Thirty years may not be a huge milestone, but it is long enough that I had a number of people comment about how rare it is today for couples to stay together so long.  It may be rare today for a couple to stay together, but it is still the ideal, and respected when accomplished.  There is a proverb that Solomon wrote that I have been chewing on for about twenty five years.  It is a proverb that speaks about how much a family suffers when the ideal arrangement of one man one woman for life is not adhered to.  This Proverb has meant a lot to me because I have always tried to interpret it from the life experience of the writer concerning things he did, and the things he experienced growing up in a very broken and dysfunctional home.  Remember that Solomon's Father, David was a great King, but his family life was broken primarily because of David's sin, and his many wives.  I think it worth mentioning that the scriptures tell us in 1 Samuel 18:20 that Michal, David's first wife was in love with David.  I do not know anywhere else in the bible where a woman's love for a man is recorded, but tragically they never lived as a married couple in love.  Listen now to what the proverb says:  Proverbs 5:15-18 (NIV)

15 Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well. 16 Should your springs overflow in the streets, your streams of water in the public squares? 17 Let them be yours alone, never to be shared with strangers. 18 May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.

            I have read this proverb many times over the years and I know that the context is about avoiding sexual sins, but when I read it, I detect an emotion of regret that is heavy on the authors mind when he penned this.  I think it is fair to ask: where is the wife of King Solomon's youth?  1 kings 11-3 tells us that Solomon had 700 wives and 300 concubines, and these women turned the heart of Solomon after other gods.  There is a saying "it's good to be the King," but a life of excess also leads to a life of regrets.  King Solomon knew how his father's life ended.  The details of King David's days are described in 1 kings chapter 1.  David had a entourage of servants and advisors to care for him, but apparently there was no family around to care for any of his intimate needs.  David's servants found a beautiful girl to attend to the King, but this was a futile gesture.  Where was Bathsheba, Solomon's mother?  The text tells us she was alive and well.  She was busy making sure that her son got the throne over any of Solomon's step-brothers.

            What does all this say about a happy marriage?  Drink water from your own cistern, running water from your own well is speaking about being happy with your wife and enjoying each other all of your days.  Yes there are things that are private and only shared between man and wife.  The strong assertion is that marital bliss is to be private and yours, alone.

            All young married couples should read this proverb, because its lesson is to be happy now and this will give you happiness later, yes much later.  May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth.  Oh, and I would be remiss if I didn't emphasize that my point is that I am fortunate to still be rejoicing in the wife of my youth whom I am still in love with, more and more with each passing day.